H A P P i M E S S

NESCAFÉ Cappuccino is the most indulgent coffee I’ve ever had!

6:36:00 AM

By definition, indulgent is something that brings so much pleasure that it spoils you. It is what we describe one thing that pampers us. Sometimes, we begin to wonder if it’s wrong or just too good to feel right.

Like a toddler with too many toys, a work-at-home mom like me can never have too much coffee. This is what I find indulgent, more than most things. You would think that a trip to the spa or a JCO donut would be my heaven, but it’s actually coffee; a cup of 3-in-1 on an early morning to be specific.

I am not a posh mum. I am nothing like those shiny mothers who have straight, re-bonded hair who can walk like a queen on heels the size of success. I don’t have the luxury or the time to go out and get myself a Frappuccino. If anything, I am able to get a full body massage twice a year, and have been able to enjoy a 30 peso muffin from our local bakery from time to time.

So... yes, I don’t have the money or the time to buy a hot Americano and sink into a warm couch while reading an awesome book. Hell, I don’t have the money to buy a new book. . . but I have the money and time to buy a 3-in-1. I have the means and at least I am not so picky, because there are a lot of things out there worth trying that don’t even cost more than a hundred.

If you’ve ever seen or heard of the Nescafe Cappuccino 3-in-1 well that’s my kind of indulgence. It's the best cappuccino I've ever had. I love to sit in front of my laptop at the dining table with a cup of Nescafe Cappuccino while writing. It’s not really a getaway when I think about it, because I am actually working, but this coffee in particular makes it feel like I’m somewhere peaceful and time slows down.

I know what you’re thinking; a Nescafe Cappuccino is nothing like the freshly brewed coffee you get out of a coffee machine, or the ones they hand you at Starbucks.

Honestly, for me Nescafe Cappuccino is to Starbucks coffee as adobo is to fine dining adobo. It’s basically just the same. It’s just that the other one has ingredients you’d never dream of being able to buy. But for me homemade is always so much better, and I can do without the exotic ingredients. It’s certainly more affordable, and maybe that’s why I find a 3-in-1 coffee more indulgent. Think about it; things don’t always have to be expensive in order for it to pamper you. I get my back massage in the living room and my masseuse is my husband. It costs me 20 minutes of pleading with pouty lips and batting my eyes, and it indulges me.

I love my Nescafe Cappuccino. I find its creamy froth indulgent, because I like how it touches my lips. It feels nothing different from a cappuccino at a coffee bar. It’s not just the brand, it’s the taste. The caffeine kicks in gently, smothers me in creaminess hidden beneath all that sweet chocolate sprinkles.

Having this cup of creamy warmth for less is nice and it still makes you feel like rich; it’s a pampering experience. It’s what moms like me, that are so financially wary and time-pressured, that appreciate the little things like this. I feel that I deserve this warmth, this taste. It pampers me because I don’t need to worry about dishing out. I can have it anytime I want, because I can; because it takes 3 minutes to boil water and barely 1 minute to stir a cup.

So there it is, a Nestle Cappuccino at 5 am with the laptop in front of me and my mind is at ease. In motherhood coupled with working and housekeeping, coffee is more than enough. It’s one of the little things you look forward to, it’s one of those little things that make time slow down and you get your hard earned break.

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To The New Mother

11:31:00 PM

As a new mother, I never knew what lay ahead of me. My own mom and my aunts told me about birth-giving and how to bathe a child, but nobody told me about how society would change before me as I become a mom. That was something I had to go through and learn on my own. I still wish I had a hint on those changes, so here are some things I want you, New Mother, to know.

People Will Judge You
It's an inevitable part of society that you will be judged for something you do, no matter what your intentions are.

Being a Mother will not excuse or protect you from such scrutiny and criticism.

If anything, there will be more expectations and compromise to be demanded from you, sometimes more often than you can change your child's diaper. People can be mean, though unintentional, and really can take a toll on your mentality. We must not let that happen. You must NOT let them get to you. Focus on your child, do your best and what you think is right. That should be your world, not others.

People Will Crowd You

It's part of the flood of changes that come with motherhood to hear a lot of "advice" and "suggestions" from people around you. Most of these "tips" will come from your own mother, mother-in-law and several female relatives, acquaintances, neighbors, etc. Some of them are golden, while others are unwanted or downright irrelevant.

It can be really frustrating to keep tabs on which advice to absorb, and how not to sound mean when all you want to do is spend your day privately with your newborn. Still, try to ask people politely to give you some space, walk away or just not visit. They will understand, if not, you don't need to be guilty or say sorry. You have the right to rest, so rest.

You Will Get Frustrated

Take note: A woman who had just given birth to a child will experience a lash of bodily chemical changes.

If pregnancy hormones have been giving husbands, moms and friends a hard time consider post-pregnancy hormones as double the trouble. It won't last more than a few weeks, but with the surge of overwhelming emotions and hormonal change, the first week will truly be extraordinary.

You May Become Territorial or Paranoid

Mothers' instincts are GREAT..and I don't mean just "Strong" or "Pure", I mean great as in "Cosmic" and full of "Force". The kind of force that is prepared to devastate when it needs to in order to protect what is vital. If you have ever seen a dog nearly tear off the fingers of its owner for trying to pet its newborn puppies, then you have an image of how a real human mom is like, metaphorically.

If not, you might become overly paranoid, part of the protective instincts of motherhood kicking in. The sound of a loud plane will scare you, riding on a commuter's bus will scare you to death and just being around your mother-in-law just may not feel right. It's not something you can easily control, but you can tame it with the help of loved ones.

Either you become aggressive and territorial or paranoid and defensive, this is how the first few days can be like. It won't be as extreme but at least you need to be aware.

Trust Yourself Over Others

As a Mother, you should learn to trust your instincts above everyones else's. It doesn't mean you are perfect and should disregard everything well-wishers are trying to share. It simply means that when you are at a loss for what to do, you actually already know the answer. It's just there and you just need to listen to that small voice in your head and for once, just go with your gut with every good intention, care and delicacy.

The opinion of others do matter, but only those opinions that belong to people who matter to you.

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